April 30, 2008
WHEN DID YOU LAST SEE YOUR FATHER
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When Did You Last See Your Father?
Elisabeth Stevens
In the Film Festival Catalog, the father of this family (effectively acted by Jim Broadbent) is described as a “charming” parent who overshadows his son ( played as an adult Colin Firth).
Don’t believe it. A better adjective to describe this father is “horrid.”
The man is a blow hard, a liar, a cheater, and above all, a sadistic parent and husband. He enjoys playing cruel practical jokes on his defenseless young son. He flaunts his long-term romance with another woman before his long-suffering wife at family gatherings.
Granted, the film provides a wrenchingly painful but believable picture of the father’s effect on his son, and eventually, his son’s marriage, but it all goes on too long. No one, unfortunately, ever has the guts to stand up to the monster. Instead, when the father is finally dying of cancer, his wife cares for him patiently, and his son leaves his own wife alone in order to help.
When the father dies at last, the film simply becomes maudlin. We have to see the wife sleeping one last night beside the corpse. We have to drag through the funeral, We have to witness the family deliriously throwing ashes that look like grey talcum powder into the air.
Some may call this closure. What it really is is failure; the failure to confront–and deal with–the truth. Perhaps this film is the son’s revenge, but it comes much too late.
